.......Men and women marry for love, for financial security, for children and for companionship. Both arranged marriages and love marriages are popular in many parts of the world, providing a secure relationship to shepherd future generations. Love in an arranged marriage, grows through companionship and shared lives
Love
Love is an essential component to marriage. A writer writes about love and declare it to be the most powerful of emotions. It's important to recognize that love felt at the beginning of a relationship will not mirror the love felt a year into it, two years into, three years into the marriage and more. Love grows, matures and evolves. What is felt in the first stages of infatuation, that fascination, can be revisited in a more mature relationship, but the power and depth of emotion felt ten years in is worth the exchange rate in gold
Communication
communication skills is the most essential part of marriage. Too often disagreements and arguments occur due to miscommunication and not because of a tangible problem. Men and women communicate in different ways, each couple communicates in different ways and there is a rhythm and pattern to the exchanges. The best tip towards improving communication skills as you go through your marriage is to always assume good intentions. Assume if there is a negative connotation and a positive connation to what a spouse says, that it's the positive
Friendship
Romantic relationships need friendship to get through the hard times. Relationships that develop from friendship are far more likely to weather turbulent emotional upheavals than those that are based on romantic affection only. Romance and sexual attraction are like sparks in the fire, they flame up hotly when stirred up and extinguish if not properly fed. Friendship, on the other hand, is the hot bed of coals that keeps the fire going. So work on being friends, first and foremost
Team Work
A marriage thrives when the partners in it are friends and can work together as a team. Blame has no place in a team. There is no I in team, either. One partner should not sacrifice everything to make the other happy. In fact, too much sacrifice leads to both partners being unhappy. Spouses need to cooperate with each other, help each other achieve dreams, celebrate achievements and be the best they can be. Beware direct competition with each other, but playful competition can have a positive effect
Being Honest
Every couple experiences doubt. Every couple struggles with issues from sex to children to family to housework and finances. These are normal, everyday problems that every couple copes with. From engagement to marriage to parenthood, the successful couple copes with these problems by being honest about them. Don't keep secrets from each other; talk out what is going on honestly, particularly when problems are often resolved by a fresh perspective
Trust
Team work, friendship, honesty, love and communication are the tools of a successful marriage. Trust is what binds these tools together. A spouse can prove their trustworthiness. A spouse can demonstrate their caring and their character, but trust itself is a leap of faith. Saying "I trust you" does not come with a written guarantee, trust means believing in someone in the absence of proof or evidence. Trust is a leap of faith in a spouse
...I'll rise up like the eagle and I will soar with You, Your Spirit leads me on; In the power of Your love....
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Falling in Love again n again n again…..
Falling in Love again n again n again…..
How blissful is the experience of falling in love with the person you love, again n again n forever… Love has its own journey in every ones life. For some, its love at first sight, for others, it’s a moment of truth and the rest, may be they are still waiting for it to happen…..
Like the air we breath, Love is everywhere around us but we cannot see it. We don’t realize that we are experiencing the amazing feeling of love within us just like we don’t realize that we are breathing every single second. The day we stop breathing, the human identity is lost.. (Have you come across when someone’s loved one dies, people ask - "when is the body coming"?.. nobody ask when is he/she being brought home) It’s an astonishing truth that the world also treats differently for a human body with a soul and being soul-less. Likewise, the day we stop realizing the truth that we are in love, we have denied the truth of our human identity…
Can anyone deny that Love is not around us, We cannot close our nose and say I shall live.. Love happens to everyone, to all humanbeings.
First we need to believe in love. A spark is enough to enlighten Love between two people. We just need to open our Heart, Mind, Soul and Body to experience the amazing feeling that nourishes not only our physical being but also our spiritual self before God… Because God sees our heart, as he has created us in his own image.
Today, I realized that how late you can be to tell someone you love that I love you….. Never miss that one chance to express your true feeling to that one person you love
A son to his father… A mother to her daughter… A brother to his sister…. A wife to her husband and A husband to his wife…..
"Love evolves between two people" and "the intensity of Love grows with the evolving closeness, attraction, crush and lust" This leads to a good understanding, caring, bonding, sacrificing, being flexible etc ……. When we reach this stage of maturity of love, believe me, you would have fallen in love many times… This is falling in love once again with the person whom you love….
Happy Valentines Day...
How blissful is the experience of falling in love with the person you love, again n again n forever… Love has its own journey in every ones life. For some, its love at first sight, for others, it’s a moment of truth and the rest, may be they are still waiting for it to happen…..
Like the air we breath, Love is everywhere around us but we cannot see it. We don’t realize that we are experiencing the amazing feeling of love within us just like we don’t realize that we are breathing every single second. The day we stop breathing, the human identity is lost.. (Have you come across when someone’s loved one dies, people ask - "when is the body coming"?.. nobody ask when is he/she being brought home) It’s an astonishing truth that the world also treats differently for a human body with a soul and being soul-less. Likewise, the day we stop realizing the truth that we are in love, we have denied the truth of our human identity…
Can anyone deny that Love is not around us, We cannot close our nose and say I shall live.. Love happens to everyone, to all humanbeings.
First we need to believe in love. A spark is enough to enlighten Love between two people. We just need to open our Heart, Mind, Soul and Body to experience the amazing feeling that nourishes not only our physical being but also our spiritual self before God… Because God sees our heart, as he has created us in his own image.
Today, I realized that how late you can be to tell someone you love that I love you….. Never miss that one chance to express your true feeling to that one person you love
A son to his father… A mother to her daughter… A brother to his sister…. A wife to her husband and A husband to his wife…..
"Love evolves between two people" and "the intensity of Love grows with the evolving closeness, attraction, crush and lust" This leads to a good understanding, caring, bonding, sacrificing, being flexible etc ……. When we reach this stage of maturity of love, believe me, you would have fallen in love many times… This is falling in love once again with the person whom you love….
Happy Valentines Day...
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